There are pretty zillion good reasons to erase the reality in life that ever did the person who never deserved to be in your life existed. But in today’s life , your still can find a minority who would have no problems with infidelity. If the guy has given you pretty good reasons to exit from his/her life, make sure to follow these as to avoid even thinking of getting back to the same relationship.
1 Change is impossible
First & foremost, the fact why would a person go back again to the person who has contributed to so much of pain in the person’s life? Most importantly, the person would have assured to never cheat gain. But why would that happen? If they have cheated once, there is a full possibility of occurring again. If the thing doesn’t work, there is always a good reason to walk out for the cheater.
2 Difficult to have the relationship as same
The moment you discover the infidelity, your relationship is forever changed. I think this is one of the biggest reasons why you shouldn’t take back a cheater. The entire dynamic of the relationship changes drastically. You’ll always be at least a little distrustful. Every time your partner looks at someone else, you’ll wonder what they’re thinking. Basically, you’ll feel like there’s a wall between the two of you.
3. Respect goes out of the window
Cheaters never respect their partners. If there aren’t consequences, they feel like it’s okay to walk all over you. Even if you yell at them and get upset, staying simply tells them it’s okay to cheat. Leaving them proves you respect yourself. You shouldn’t have to stay in a situation where your partner doesn’t respect you or where you don’t respect yourself.
4 Something better is in store for you
Do you really deserve to be with someone who doesn’t appreciate you enough not to cheat? You should never blame yourself if your partner has an affair. You deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you. You will find someone better. Some people stay because they don’t want to be alone. Trust me, being single is better than being with a cheater.
6. Chuck out the stress for life
No matter what your partner says or does, you’ll always feel stressed whenever they’re not right by your side. You’ll wonder if they’re really on a business trip or who they’re with on their lunch break. Why wear yourself down with the constant stress? Dumping them eliminates the stress so you can get on with your life and find someone better.